Here are some points to ponder. I’m fully on board with prioritizing physical fitness and combatives as part of an overall defensive plan. However, I am all for force multipliers. By most standards my unarmed fighting skills are advanced. While I’ll go for a challenge in sparring, in a street or military situation, I’ll do everything I can to tilt the odds unfairly in my favor. While gimmicky and effective is still something, I prefer common items that have defensive purposes. That way you aren’t freaking out the neighbors with your weird ninja thing. Flashlights are good. So are pens. They both have a practical function and can be used as weapons on demand. Skill and innovation can identify weapons where others do not see them. The author makes a good point about the danger of getting attached to your toys. Have options. Use them as appropriate. – Pahlawan
The discussion on semantics resonates from an NLP perspective. And the fastest path from one point to another can be a straight line. But, if Plan A fails, or you survive the Plan A of your attacker, some of those techniques from “Eastern knife styles” could come in handy.
A friend recently asked me to put together a self-defense program. It was mainly for a group of women consisting of moms and daughters. I like this challenge. Time is limited, the danger is real and we can assume a number of advantages on the side of the potential assailant. In this scenario, I refuse to teach defensive techniques without emphasizing risk avoidance strategy. All the fights you avoid are wins in my book.
For many years, I’ve been interested in self-defense, martial arts, survival, security and related topics. Unfortunately, many of my friends are normal, well-adjusted citizens. Some don’t even train martial arts or own a single firearm or bug out bag! So that means socializing often leads conversation to less exciting topics. It’s ok. Somehow I manage. But this place to ponder and discuss my niche interests and open to others with a similar inclination.